Safety Playbook
FreeBuild a check-in plan, keep boundary scripts ready, and decide your next move before venue pressure or payment pressure escalates.
Set a check-in
Share the venue, time, and check-in deadline with one trusted person.
Keep scripts ready
Switch venues, refuse prepay, or exit politely without improvising under pressure.
Escalate early
If the situation becomes threatening, move to safety, document, and use 1930 or 112.
Quick scripts for common pressure
Copy these before you need them. Calm language is easier to use when it is ready.
Switch venue
I would rather meet at a public cafe I know for a first meeting. Let's do [your venue] instead.
Refuse prepay
I do not prepay for first meetings. Happy to pay when I arrive or pick a venue that does not need booking.
Exit politely
I am going to step back from this plan. Take care, and I will not be rescheduling.
Escalate fast
If money or threats are involved, stop negotiating, preserve evidence, call 1930, and move to a safe public place.
Stay private
The plan is generated client-side and shared by you.
Use a fallback venue
Keep one public venue in reserve before the conversation turns.
Escalate early
If you feel trapped or threatened, move to safety before you explain.